All breakups are hard & quite distressing(unbearable).
when someone breaks your heart,you often go into sorrow in tears or alcohol or even in drugs.Though ,in order to make us feel us good & to overcome the past memories of our loved ones,these friends often feed us lies so that we can feel good about what has happen .If you hadn’t caught them already ,then do not worry here is a brief details how to make out that your friends are lying to you, to just come out of the situation & think that what all has happened is good only.
1.”YOU ARE TOO GOOD FOR THEM”
yes the first thing which your friends says is that you are too good for them.This is the most common lie that every friend tell you right after the breakup.You really fell for them in the first place,right??At that time ,this friend thought that the two of you were great together & can never be broken in our relations.things can’t drastically change just like that! But the poor bloke’s just trying to lift your spirits.
2.THEY WILL SPEAK BAD THINGS ABOUT THEM
yep its an another truth about everybody.your friends will start calling your ex names & point out every possible bad things related to their behavior,attitude & nevertheless about their bad character.
3.I KNEW THIS WAS ABOUT TO HAPPEN
The next things what your friends say is that they already knew that this things were sure to happen & they knew it previously.hahaha its kinda joke (they are not god).They also tells that they somehow knew that your relationship was doomed right form the start. Nevertheless, they never reveals to you about this,QUITE INTERESTING!!
4.THEY WERE NEVER REALLY INTO YOU
This one often hurts the most.You knew that everyone has a feeling for its opposite sex, weather its dog,cat,cow or any animals.Even we, the humans have too we know that their feelings for you were genuine,but when you hear this from your friends then you star doubting your relationship in the past.
5.NOW YOU CAN BE HAPPY ALONE
but what if you don’t want to happy in being single?
What if you want to live happily together again?
what if you want the same feeling ever lasted till your life?what if you want the same person to be around you as your lifepartner?what if you don’t find your happiness in anything else?
yes question these things & see if weather things can really change or not!
6.ONE DAY THIS WILL ALL BE A DISTANT MEMORY
the next things they say is that this will be a good past for you in future.you will definitely get a far better lifepartner ahead.knowing that the other half of your relationship is gone won’t stop haunting you just like that.It takes some time.
7.HE/SHE WILL REGRET THIS
But this is not the case for everybody.Often, people don’t regret a breakup,knowing that it was nevr supposed to last forever.You should also think about it a little.If you are sure that the two of you are better off without each other,then it’s a good thing to end a relationship instead of dragging it along to a threshold point.
8.THEY WILL NEVER FIND SOMEONE LIKE YOU
This is,by far, the most common lie that everyone will tell you right after a breakup.If they are no longer in your life,then you should stop thinking about past & focus on present & for future.The most important thing is loneliness which one feels after his/her breakups,but rather it is founded that some relationships gives a motivation for both the girl & boy, but a single doubt destroys the year long relations when some third person comes in between your relationship.
Most often we are very emotional after breakups, we listen to sad songs,wear dark clothes,we try to show off the ended relations, we forget the cause of the breakups & mainly divert our mind into a loneliness!!!!
SO WHAT TO DO AFTER BREAKUPS:
1.Be happy & take this thing as a step closer to your carrier.
2.Avoid listening sad music,songs etc.
3.Interact more with your parents.
4.Don’t Discuss your breakups with your friends.
5.At last don’t let down your life with attempting suicide, because you never know how much intresting this life is,so be happy & wait for our latest facts & ARTICLES.
NOTE:NOW DO WHATEVER YOU WANT TO DO MAN, BUT NEVER TROUBLE YOUR MOM MAn!!!!